When is the right time to sleep with him

By Jade Seashell (contributor), author of  “A Seductress’ Confession: How to leverage beauty and savor tantalizing pleasure”
          There are gurus teaching rules such as “You can sleep with him after at least 3 dates” and “You can sleep with him after at least 3 months”.  However, I don’t believe in rules.  I believe in principles.  There are two principles when it comes to dating a guy you are attracted to.
          #1. If you are looking for a casual relationship.... When you are ready, sleep with him any time you want and own it.  Actually, men and women are equally interested in sex by nature (women may have had different social conditioning such as the outdated slut shaming, but that doesn’t mean women are not interested in sex by nature).  Therefore, if you are only looking for a fling, sleeping with him on your terms is so key - when you are ready, that’s the right time.
         #2. If you are looking for a long-term relationship....  You only sleep with him when the emotional connection has been built.  After you two have built a deep emotional connection by having a lot of shared experiences, you can sleep with him.  This is because men can’t fall in love with you simply by having sex with you; men need to be emotionally attached to you before they fall in love with you.
(Jade Seashell is an Australian author, seduction expert and creativity adviser.  She regularly writes at www.jadeseashell.com)
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