Protecting Your Couple Relationship : 5 Things You Must Not Allow

There is nothing more intense and rewarding than being in love, to have a person who loves us and whom we love. But be careful not to fall into the error of giving the complete gift of oneself to the other person. That's why we explain here what steps you need to protect yourself, first.
 
How to protect your relationship
 
 
1. Do not give him "everything" without "never" anything in return
 
It is a mistake that we tend to commit. Loving someone means opening all our emotions, without finding a limit, offering him a passion and genuine altruism. And this is good, no doubt. But of course, every gesture is reinforced by a sincere love and selfishness does not exist. If we give everything, and we only receive demands and criticisms, the timing of frustrations, we will feel empty. This feeling is very destructive and should be taken into account. 
 
2. Do not destroy your self-esteem and values
 
In a couple, it is usual that there are different tastes, affinities, and even values. But as long as there are respect and recognition, all works well. You can allow your partner, for example, put in value spontaneity, diversion, outputs, etc. but you must also take time to share quiet and intimate days at home together. 
 
There must be a balance. Am I a boring person? Am I a person who cannot make him happy? Such questions can do much harm to our self-esteem. We must respect and value us. It's essential. If respect does not exist, happiness cannot exist.
 
3. Do not invade or do not let them destroy your personal space
 
We all have affinities, friends, and passions, things that we cannot renounce. Never leave aside your family or friends for your spouse. Do not give up everything to please your partner; otherwise, there will be nothing, and you lose your identity. Personal space is these intimate spaces where our personalities, our social life, and our passions are. Do not neglect.
 
4. Do not let your dreams and hopes fade
 
Sometimes we maintain emotional relationships with toxic people who take-off our wings and tell us every day that we are not capable of doing this or that. That we're not smart to do some works that we desire so ardently is not made for us because we are not up to par. Do not allow this. We are who we are.
 
5. Do not allow you to convert yourself into a miserable person
 
It is the most important. When you get up in the morning, ask yourself if you are happy. Ask yourself if the person who is with you is the one you want to grow old, who will accompany your maturity and who will live with you in harmony and peace. If it brings security, maturity, and dreams, then you make no mistake, this relationship is worth being lived, and you have to fight against it. 
 
But if you feel empty, and you perceive that this couple does bring you to tears but smiles, and you live with an underlying sadness, you will react. You deserve to be happy. It is the vital right of every person.
 
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Nguyen Kinh Luan
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