Conversational skills in dating

By Jade Seashell (contributor), author of “A Seductress’ Confession: How to leverage beauty and savor tantalizng pleasure”
         Most seducers and seductresses are great conversationalists because the ability to keep an interesting conversation going is the most important skill in seduction.  Therefore, that’s definitely something that we should learn if we’d like to improve our dating skills.
        * When you approach someone at a party, say “How have you been?” rather than “How are you?”  That’s because “How have you been?” makes him/her feel that you two have known each other for a very long time before this conversation.  Therefore, it’s a very effective way to build rapport naturally with a stranger.
        * During a conversation with someone you are interested in, pause and say, “So, I’m curious.”  While you are having a fun conversation with someone you like, don’t be afraid of awkward silence because silence is so key in attraction - silence actually builds sexual tension.  Hence, you can pause and then say, “So, I’m curious.” And you pause again.  I’m sure the person you are talking to is paying attention to you at this moment.  Then you continue saying, “if you can wake up anywhere in the world tomorrow, where would you wake up?”
       * Avoid small talk and ask him/her questions at an emotional level.  Instead of asking “What do you do?”, you should ask “You look so artistic, are you a musician?”  Instead of asking “Do you like your job?”, you should ask “Why do you want to be a lawyer?”  A hundred people have done small talk with him/her, so you want to stand out from the crowd.
(Jade Seashell is an Australian author, dating expert and creativity advisor.  She regularly writes at
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